Good morning, fine fine people. I’m going to break from years and years of tradition with this morning’s post. OK, maybe it’s really just ten blog entries’ worth of tradition. But tradition is tradition, and rules are made to be broken. In this case, my and Everett’s epic trip yesterday from San Francisco to Syracuse merits a “Part II.” And so this is it, and may the Airline Gods spare us from a “Part III.”
As I mentioned in yesterday’s post, Fly the Friendly Skies, the day started off before morning’s first light full of promise. I had managed to coast along feeding on Everett’s enthusiasm for the early wake up and a cup of SFO’s Dogpatch Bakehouse & Caffe. I stocked up on a number of key bribery items, chief of which was an entire pack of tropical fruit-flavored Dentyne gum. Things were still looking good at “wheels up” from SFO, as can be seen in this pic (featuring Ev clutching said Dentyne gum, with every intention of devouring all 357 pieces in that pack, whether I liked it or not) —
Things got dicey after we touched down in Chicago. Our planned 50-minute layover dragged on for nearly 4 extra hours, and came within a terrifying mlimeter of stretching into 24 hours. And Cleveland. Airline gate agents apparently have a name for this phenomenon. They called it “Delay Creep.” I was so relieved five seconds after I heard that nice gate agent woman utter this phrase the first time. In the midst of my interrogation of her (again, the litigation stuff comes in handy), I thought she said, “delay, creep.” I felt my face flush hot, then glanced over at Everett across the waiting area to confirm he wasn’t watching me as I feared I was about to turn into Bill Bixby’s alter ego. You wouldn’t like me when I’m angry. As I was forming my lips to make the “w” of an angry “What did you just call me?,” the gate agent saved me. “Gate Creep. That’s what we call it.” What a relief. (And what a difference a comma makes, by the way.) That could have been disastrous, Everett looking up from his iPod to see me carted off in ziptied cuffs by some aggravated Air Marshals in crisp blue blazers and moustaches.
The weather started to worsen outside our United terminal at O’Hare, and the gate agents began to spin a narrative about “mechanical trouble with equipment involved with de-icing.” Now as anyone who has grown up on the east coast or midwest, or otherwise suffered through icy winter flying, don’t nobody mess around with the “de-icing.” So this was a brilliant stroke on the part of the gate agents to quell the murmuring, imminent passenger uprising. It’s like invoking “He whose name shall not be spoken.” Queued up grandmas in handknit sweaters and hoodie-wearing college students, all of us, immediately “de-queued” at the gate counter, casting our eyes downward as the only appropriate response to the “de-icing” invocation. Don’t nobody mess with “de-icing.” And it was pretty outside, what with fat snowflakes falling on the tarmac, unlike anything Ev had seen for at least a couple years. His “Oh, Wow!” exuberance responding to the scene captured below bought me roughly, oh, 112 seconds of calm.
That’s OK, I figured at this point I could placate my 8 year-old with some really high-quality father-son time. In other words, I sheepishly handed over his iPod so he could play an hour of anti-brain development video games while I took to the Twittersphere. Fortunately, I was able to document how our O’Hare visit devolved from “My Three Sons” to something dangerously close to “Dexter.”
At this point, I’d like to think that I was still being pretty sweet, a good passenger, a good citizen. Look at me, I’m so cute and stuff. What an amazing Dad.
Welp, I got a little antsy since we had to find an open electrical outlet to charge Everett’s iPod and my iPhone. The “Delay Creep” tethered us to our Gate, and we were told not to wander far. With Everett’s attention fully-charged for at least awhile going forward now, my thoughts wandered to how far behind I had fallen on my Fitbit Leaderboard. People I had grown accustomed to “taunting” for their weaksauce “step counts” (including my wife), had managed to wrack up ten thousand steps more than I, and counting. I could just picture them all, cranking out steps like boot camp soldiers, while I stagnated at our gate. My fragile ego strained under the weight of having to see them look down on me from the top of the Fitbit “Totem Pole.” I got itchy, but couldn’t manufacture any steps in this predicament, stuck as I was right next to my plugged-in son. My frustration began to bubble over a bit —
Still, at this point, I was managing to keep up a good front. Right? Witty, learned, and still a model father, by any reasonable measure. Nothing too terribly shameful, or beyond the bounds of Grandma’s Lemonade, right? Right?
Then lunch at the terminal’s Chili’s mini-restaurant.
It is possible that the libation in the foreground played a causative role in my worsening mood and the degraded tweeting that followed….
By this point, that “extra large sounds like a great idea, thanks!” Sam Adams had worn me down, and Everett graciously allowed me to conserve my energy a bit.
What looked like cute father-son horseplay was really me manufacturing a 30-minute power nap. But in my increasingly frustrated state, I couldn’t resist the urge to lash out once more at United. Besides, no one would ever even see these tweets, right?
And…there we have it. Any semblance of “good dad,” observing social mores, being a good role model and an upstanding digital citizen went completely. Out. The. Window. I had only a small little asterisk to cover myself, naked and profane, from being revealed as a stark raving madman. Cue the mustached, blue-blazered Marshals, reaching for their service revolvers.
But just as all was nearly lost; when overnighting at a Holiday Inn Express and huffing on Greyhound exhaust fumes seemed the logical conclusion of our predicament; just as I started to warm — “it’s not that bad” — to the notion of flying from ORD to Cleveland in the morning, finally landing in Syracuse a full day later; the United social media marketing manager entrusted with the United Twitter keys came to my rescue. At precisely the same time as the United maintenance workers pulled a miraculous fix on the, gulp, “de-icing” equipment.
Mercifully, Everett and I buckled up once more, endured a wind-buffeted flying sideways landing in Syracuse, and arrived at our final destination. All’s well that ends well. Except for the fact that my mother, the woman who carried me in her womb for 9 months and raised me to be a “good man,” and how to raise my own “good men,” well, she took full advantage of my vulnerable, sleep-deprived state. I walked into her home–sanctuary after our 14-hour ordeal–and was slapped in the face by this sign. But more on that in tomorrow’s blog post.
Thanks for reading.